My Favorite Role

We all identify and define ourselves, to some degree, by roles we play in life. When thinking about the roles I have played in this lifetime, my favorite role without a doubt, is that of mother. I knew at an early age that part of my contract was to become a mother. When I say become a mother, I mean just that... I was not born with the innate ability to be a mother, I had to grow into that role. I didn't have children at an early age because I knew I had to learn who I was before I could possibly offer myself to the sacred responsibility of motherhood.
No one could have possibly prepared me for everything that motherhood had in store for me. Perhaps, that is one of the reasons it is my favorite role. It has been entirely, a live in the moment, trial and error, fly by the seat of my pants experience. There have been many difficulties, obstacles and sorrows to work through and overcome. Just when I thought I had something figured out, I realized I didn't know anything. I've had to start from scratch more times than I wish to count. But, I have to say, it has all been worth it.
Being a mother has stressed me in ways I had not thought possible (and I do mean that in the literal sense as well). It has allowed me to play mutiple roles, including doctor, nurse, psychologist, friend, student, teacher, tutor, creativity director, room mother, den mother, chauffeur, mentor and guide. It has never been dull and always challenging. It has brought me some of my biggest joys and greatest triumphs.
But, the greatest gift I have received has been my son and daugther. When they walk into a room, my eyes light up. They are people that I am proud to say, came through me. I've witnessed their journeys; and I'm amazed at the challenges they have gallantly tackled and the people they have become. I'm proud of the fact that they do not compromise their integrity and their self-esteem has been earned. I have learned so much from them. They are people I would be proud to work for, and with, and honored to call my friend. They are people I like to spend quality time with, and they are quality people.
If I could possibly take credit for even a minuscule part in influencing and guiding them to become the people they are today, then motherhood has been my greatest role. It is certainly my favorite role.
What is your greatest role in life?